you should be honest with yourself.

consider all your positive and negetive aspects of yourslef. look at the whole part of
concpets in your life. But..
Try to notice the positive points more than others , then you will be able to have a better
balance in your life.

This way , carry the positive way of thinking and bieng opetimistic is the basement of success .
so many people think that being optemistic means not seeing the realites and not seeing the
bad things in life . being optemesic does not neccessary mean , just the full part of glass.
No no , this is not the case.
if this is case, then you have not noticed some parts of realites in life. if you just see the fill part of glass
then how can you see the empty part?

in the first step, you should see everything around yourslef, like a camera which catch everything and focuse in the
on the most bueatiful parts. Be aware of honesty and cheating at the same time.

practice number 2:
make an advertisment for yourself!Write all your positive characterstics.Power, eneregy , health, high spirit, High education ,
art , job, good confidence, influence, spiritual books, nice parents, home, your aim , your opportunity , your occupation, your nice
brian and and and , and on the whole , remember of yourself as a nice person

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You

There comes a time when you must stand alone.

You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.

You must be willing to make sacrifices.

You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final

goal can be achieved.

Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.

There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own

realities.

Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.

Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.

Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and

find your true sense of purpose in this life.

Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

همه انسانها استعدادهاي منحصر به فردي دارند و براي كشف اين استعدادها قدم به دنيا مي گذارند . بر اساس اين قانون احتمال كشف اين استعدادها زماني بيشتر مي شود كه از خود بپرسيم چه چيزي مي توانم ببخشم ؟ و نه اينكه چه چيزي مي توانم بدست آورم ؟ بيل كيتس يكي از ثروتمندترين مردان جهان است. اما وقتي به سخنراني هاي او گوش مي دهيم، مي فهميم كه براي او نرم افزار كامپيوتر بسيار جالبتر از پول است . ثروتمند بودن ، يك هدف نيست بلكه يك محصول جنبي است . شهرت هم ، چنين است . از آدمهاي مشهور بپرسيد كه جز ناراحتي و عدم آسايش چه چيزي از شهرت ديده اند ؟ چرا آدم بايد دوست داشته باشد كه ارتشي از افراد بيگانه از در و ديوار خانه اش بالا بروند يا وقتي از خياباني رد مي شود پنجاه تا عكس از او بگيرند ؟ همه ما در مسيرهاي يك راه مختلف در حال حركت هستيم . وقتي كه براي انجام كار مورد علاقه تان به راه مي افتيد هميشه كساني هستند كه مي خواهند مانع از حركت شما شوند . اگر كار مورد علاقه ام را شروع كنم آيا مشكلات كمتري خواهم داشت ؟ نه! ماموريت شما در زندگي (بي مشكل زيستن نيست ) (با انگيزه زيستن ) است . انجام كار مورد علاقه به مثابه نسخه اي براي زندگي آسانتر نيست. نسخه اي براي زندگي جذاب تر است . به احتمال زياد در اين راه با مسئوليتهاي بيشتري مواجه خواهيد بود و مشكلات بيشتر !! اين سلسله درسها داستان نيست ، بلكه تمامي نقشه هاي موفقيت آميز براي زندگي شاد است . از هر كجا كه مي توانيد ، آغاز كنيد و هر كاري كه مي توانيد انجام دهيد . صحبت از شانس و اقبال نسيت ، صحبت از تلاش است . اگر كاري را انجام مي دهيد كه به آن علاقه داريد ، شور و شوق ، شما را تا پايان راه مي برد . وقتي وجود شما سرشار از اشتياق باشد ديگر لازم نيست كه ديگران ، شما را به شوق بياورند . نيروي زندگي و حيات ، از وجود هدف در زندگي ريشه مي گيرد . اما بايد كاري را انجام دهيم كه به ما شور و اشتياق مي بخشد و اين ديني است كه به ديگران داريم . دنياي ما سرشار از آدمهاي سرد و بي علاقه اي است كه قبل از اينكه آتشي ببينند ، سوخته اند . تعقيب كردن روياها ، تضميني براي يك زندگي آسان و بي دغدغه نيست . كاملا بر عكس ، وقتي پيرو روياهاي خود مي شويد دنيا بيشتر شما را به مبارزه مي خواند اما از اين رهگذر ، سفري آغاز مي شود كه به نوبه خود به سفري دروني مي انجامد و آنوقت است كه فرصتي براي شكوفا شدن مي يابيد و به حقيقت خويشتن پي مي بريد . در هر جا و هر وضعيتي درمانده و پابند نباشيد . درختان ، اسير خاكند ، شما انسانيد ! اگر شما هم روياهايي داريد كه برآورده نشده اند ،بهانه هاي خود را تجزيه و تحليل كنيد . حقيقت اين است كه ما با خود آنقدرها رو راست نيستيم . ما خيلي چيزها را غير ممكن مي ناميم اما حقيقت آن است كه آنها اسباب زحمت هستند ، نه ناممكن ! وقتي كه توده اي از مشكلات در مقابل انسان صف آرايي مي كند او براي مقابله و بقاء نوعي ايستادگي و نيروي اراده ذهني را در خود ايجاد مي كند و همين نيروست كه به سلاح پنهان و رمزآميز او تبديل مي شود.

نتيجه :

 براي ما هميشه حق انتخاب وجود دارد. اگر كاري انجام نمي دهيد علتش آن است كه انرژي خود را در جاي ديگري گذاشته ايد . صحبت از امكان پذير بودن و يا نبودن يك كار نيست ، مسئله اصلي تمايل داشتن و نداشتن به آن كار است . وقتي كه مي گويم : (من اين كار را انجام مي دهم و همه دشواريهاي آن را به جان مي خرم ) آن وقت است كه همه چيز اين جهان به حمايت از شما برمي خيزد

Thank You Lord, for creating Planet Earth
We have ravaged it with wars and battles,

Thank You Lord for creating us Human Beings,
We preache Love and practice Hate,

Thank you , Lord , for giving us the beautiful Oceans and Seas,
We have contaminated them beyond recognition>

Thank you , Lord, for giving us the lovely forests and trees,
We have converted them into barren graveyards,

Thank you , Lord for giving us the pure air so that we might breathe,
We have succeeded in polluting it into a near deadly gas.

Thank you, Lord for helping us achieve progress in Science,
Destruction of Mankind seems to be the first priority.

Thank you , Lord for the progress we achieved in Space Research
Million are spent while half of mankind is starving.

Thank you , Lord for helping us in biological research,
It seems to be the reason why drugs have become such a big deal today.

Thank You, MANKIND...for achieving progress in every aspect of Life.....
Except in learning how to Live and Love one another in Peace.

PLEASE HELP US , OH LORD ....written by ERNEST(MY GREAT FIREND IN MALTA,WHEN HE WAS JUST 14 YEARS OLD)

A man was walking down the beach at sunset. As, he walked along, he saw another man in the distance. He noticed this man kept leaning down, picking up something and throwing it out into the water, again and again. As, he approached even closer, he noticed that the man was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach. He was throwing them back into the water, one by one.

Puzzled, he approached the man and said,
"Good Evening. I was wondering what you are doing."

"I'm throwing these starfish back into the ocean. You see, it's low tide and all these starfish have been washed up onto the shore. If, I don't throw them back into the ocean, they'll die up here from lack of oxygen."

"But, there must be thousands of starfish on this beach. You can't possible get to all of them. And, don't you realize this is probably happening on hundreds of beaches all up and down this coast. Can't you see that you can't possibly make a difference?"

The man bent down and picked up yet another starfish, and threw it back into the ocean. With a smile he replied, "Made a difference to that one !!!"

Just remember, no matter how small the deed
it really does makes a difference.
Make a difference today.
Do something nice for someone else,
even if it's just sending this card to a friend and
letting them know somebody cares about them.

نوع احساسي كه دربارة ديگران داريم به رفتارهاي آنها بستگي ندارد بلكه به نگرش خود ما مربوط است . اكثر آدمها بيشترين وقت خود را صرف جستجوي عيبهاي ديگران مي كنند و كمتر به خوبيهاي آنها مي پردازند . اگر قرار است بر ويژگيهاي افراد تمركز كنيم حداقل بهتر نيست كه از ويژگيهاي مثبت آغاز كنيم ؟ اگر از شما بخواهيم كه عيبهاي مادرتان را بگوييد آيا چيزي براي گفتن پيدا نمي كنيد ؟ اگر بگويم كه “ 5 مورد از مواردي را كه در ارتباط با وضع ظاهر ، نگرش و رفتار او نمي پسنديد ، نام ببريد “ آيا نمي توانيد اين موارد را بيابيد ؟ شرط مي بندم كه مي توانيد ـ درواقع اگر وقت كافي داشته باشيد ـ صد و حتي هزار مورد را نام ببريد و چه بسا به جايي برسيد كه ديگر حتي حاضر به ديدن مادرتان نشويد ! افرادي كه به نكات منفي تمركز مي كنند غالباً با بيان اين جمله به دفاع از خود  بر مي خيزند : “ من فقط واقع بين هستم  “ اما مسلم اين است كه هركسي خالق واقعيت خود است . اين شما هستيد كه تصميم مي گيريد مادر خود و يا هر شخص ديگر را چگونه  ببينيد . از افراد پيرامونتان يكي را انتخاب كنيد و بر ويژگيهاي مثبتي كه در او مي پسنديد ، دقيق شويد و ملاحظه كنيد كه چگونه روابط تان رو به بهبود مي رود . اين شيوه ، در مواردي مي تواند دشوار و يا حتي ترسناك باشد اما كارساز است .

نتيجه :

 آدمهاي مشابه ، وضعيت مشابه ، نگرشهاي متفاوت ! ما تصميم مي گيريم كه ديگران را چگونه ببينيم . نوع احساسي كه دربارة ديگران داريم به رفتارهاي آنها بستگي ندارد بلكه به نگرش خود ما مربوط است .

One of my colleges told me: I have never done something in my whole life which I really like it.
This opinion seems to me like : I am being destroyed or I am being sacrificed in life ! And then I thought, this is horrible and I felt sorry for him!!
Life is supposed to be beautiful and attractive! Birds sing everyday while they start a new day . Children laugh for no reason . Take a look at Dolphins and dogs . Who said that life is not attractive? World is full of beauty and attraction . If you also was inherited the same idea of Life is not going to be attractive, just think more carefully about it. This is just a belief which you can believe it very easily.
Allocate a specific time for the jobs you enjoy doing them and there have got attraction for you .
Working hard constantly can lead to this idea that life is a challenge all the time. Be patient with yourself . Even enjoying of life needs practice . If you have a great life and something from your inside tells you that this great life can not last for ever! You should think : Maybe my life is going to be better than this!!!

Anyone can stand by you when you are right, but a Friend will stand by you even when you are wrong...

A simple friend identifies himself when he calls. A real friend doesn't have to.

A simple friend opens a conversation with a full news bulletin on his life.

A real friend says, "What's new with you?"

A simple friend thinks the problems you whine about are recent.

A real friend says, "You've been whining about the same thing for 14 years. Get off your duff and do something about it."

A simple friend has never seen you cry. A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names. A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.

A simple friend hates it when you call after he has gone to bed. A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.

A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems. A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.

A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest. A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.

A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A simple friend expects you to always be there for them. A real friend expects to always be there for you

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what

would there be to look forward to?

Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn.

Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow.

Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement.

Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons.

Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference.

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.

A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.

Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings

If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

) THE GIFT OF LISTENING...
But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.

 2) THE GIFT OF AFFECTION...
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.

 3) THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER...
Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."

 4) THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE...
It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.

 5) THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT...
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.

 6) THE GIFT OF A FAVOR...
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.

 7) THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE...
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

 8) THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION...
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, "Hello" or "Thank you."

1. Don't nag!
2. Resolve arguments quickly... and REALLY resolve them!
3. Forgive and truly forget.
4. Don't bring up past problems when addressing a new one.
5. Constantly remind your love of how much you love them.
6. Never lose your respect for your partner.
7. Even though you are a couple, never lose your self-identity.
8. Schedule and never break a weekly date with your partner. Even if
9. the date involves staying home.
10. Don't lie or be unfaithful to your partner.
11. Make it a point to say and show that you love your partner every day!

v     FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS.GO CONFIDENTLY IN THE DIRECTION

v      

v     OF YOUR DREAMS.LIVE THE LIFE YOU HAVE IMAGNED.

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*انگاه که دست یاری به سوی کسی دراز میکنی مواظب باش که مشت بر دهان دیگری نکوبی.

when uextend a helping hand to

one person,be carfull not to kick

someone else in the teeth

As your love runs through me

And sets my heart a flame

As all the years go by

I'll love you just the same

I know this love is true

And true love never dies

While it's you that's in my heart

There's tears I'll never cry

When I am with you

I've never felt so free

My love is growing stronger

With you I'll always be

Love
The Special Feeling that makes you feel all Warm and Wonderful

Respect
Treating others as well as you'd like to be treated

Appreciation
To be Grateful for all the Good Things Life has to offer

Happiness
The Full Enjoyment of each moment with a Smiling Face

Forgiveness
The Ability to let Things be without Anger

Sharing
The Joy of giving without Thought of Receiving

Honesty
The Quality of always telling the Truth

Integrity
The purity of doing what's Right no matter what.

Compassion
The Essence of Feeling another's Pain, while Easing their Hurt

Peace
The Reward for living the 10 Most Important Things...
 

Tolerance says, "You must approve of what I do

."

Love responds, "I must do something harder:

I will love you even when your behavior offends me."

Tolerance says, "You must agree with me."

Love responds, "I must do something harder:

 
I will tell you the truth,

 
because I am convinced 'the truth will set you free.'"

Tolerance says, "You must allow me to have my

way."

Love responds, "I must do something harder:

 
I will plead with you to follow the right way,

 
because I believe you are worth the risk."

A good friend of mine once told me that if you can focus on a dream and keep it within your

sight unconditionally, that dream can become a reality. I believe this to every extent, but there is one dream that sheer belief cannot achieve. This is to fall in love...

...To find someone who you can trust enough to give all of yourself. Someone whose eyes can lose you and all the same can lead you in the right directions. Someone to cherish, to want, to need... to complete you and help you find your place. Someone blind of your imperfections, def to words untrue, but able to hear unspoken thoughts and see untold dreams.

Belief on its own will not bring you love, but love will give birth to new belief that budding dreams may bloom. You are my belief. You're my strength and my wisdom. My friend... my best friend... my perfect dream... and I love you.

A man was walking down the beach at sunset. As, he walked along, he saw

another man in the distance. He noticed this man kept leaning down, picking up something and throwing it out into the water, again and again. As, he approached even closer, he noticed that the man was picking up starfish that had been washed up on the beach. He was throwing them back into the water, one by one.

Puzzled, he approached the man and said,
"Good Evening. I was wondering what you are doing."

"I'm throwing these starfish back into the ocean. You see, it's low tide and all these starfish have been washed up onto the shore. If, I don't throw them back into the ocean, they'll die up here from lack of oxygen."

"But, there must be thousands of starfish on this beach. You can't possible get to all of them. And, don't you realize this is probably happening on hundreds of beaches all up and down this coast. Can't you see that you can't possibly make a difference?"

The man bent down and picked up yet another starfish, and threw it back into the ocean. With a smile he replied, "Made a difference to that one !!!"

Just remember, no matter how small the deed
it really does makes a difference.
Make a difference today.
Do something nice for someone else,
even if it's just sending this card to a friend and
letting them know somebody cares about them.

. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you..



. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

.Justbecause someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all t! hey have.

.. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them. 

Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile

. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you. 

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about ! who you trust next time around.

. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.

. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON.
True friends: How many people actually have 8 true friends?

Hardly anyone I know ! But some of us have all right friends and good friends!!!

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You will Have Good Luck For Two Years if you send this to 8 people or more and if this is sent back to you then you are a true friend......

Yesterday - Today - Tomorrow

Yesterday I met a stranger...

Today this stranger is my friend.  Had I not taken the time to say hello, or return a smile, or shake a hand, or listen, I would not have known this person. Yesterday would have turned into today and our chance meeting would be gone.

Yesterday I hugged someone very dear to me. Today they are gone... and tomorrow will not bring them back. Wouldn't it be nice if we all knew tomorrow would be here? But we don't, so take the time TODAY to give a hug, a smile, an "I love you"...

JUST FOR TODAY,

...smile at a stranger
...listen to someone's heart
...drop a coin where a child can find it
...learn something new, then teach it to someone
...tell someone you're thinking of them
...hug a loved one
...don't hold a grudge
...don't be afraid to say "I'm sorry"
...look a child in the eye and tell them how great they are
...don't kill that spider in your house, he's just lost so show him the way out
...look beyond the face of a person into their heart
...make a promise, and keep it
...call someone, for no other reason than to just say "hi"
...show kindness to an animal
...stand up for what you believe in
...smell the rain, feel the breeze, listen to the wind
...use all your senses to their fullest
...cherish all of your TODAYS

The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.
~ by Helen Keller ~

The courses of true love never did run smooth.
~ by William Shakespeare ~

But true love is a durable fire,
In the mind ever burning,
Never sick, never old, never dead,
From itself never turning.
~ by Sir Walter Raleigh ~

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.
~ by Flavia Weedn ~

A person can make you feel high,
A person can make you feel low.
But only you can decide,
Which way you want to go.

A person can hurt you mentally,
A person can hurt you physically.
But only you can place,
A limit on your abilities.

A person can cause drama,
A person can cause a situation.
But only you can create,
Your own reputation.

A person can make you laugh,
A person can make you cry.
But only you can make,
Decisions for your life.

I guess what I'm trying to say,
That when you're living day to day.
Don't live by what people do,
But live by what you know is true.

I am your servant
I am your prince
I became yours forever
From that very first glance

I’ve done everything
I could possibly do
To make you happy
And show my love is true

And on this day
Just one month ago
I asked you out
And your face was aglow

Now one month later
We’re still together
You’ve still got my heart
And I’m yours forever

Forever and ever
Together we’ll stay
No matter what it takes
We’ll always find a way

Through the sad times
And the joyous ones in life
We’ll always be together
Because one day you’ll be my wife

I’ll honor you always
I’ll stay by your side
Through sickness and health
I won’t run and hide

So if you’re ever worried
About losing your servant
Just re-read this poem and then
You’ll know that leave I can’t

1. Make up your mind to be happy.       

Learn to find pleasure in simple things.

2. Make the best of your circumstances.      

No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears.

3. Don't take yourself too seriously.

Don't think that somehow you should be protected from misfortune that befalls other people.

4. You can't please everybody.

Don't let criticism worry you.

5. Don't let your neighbor set your standards.

Be yourself.

6. Do the things you enjoy doing but stay out of debt.

7. Never borrow trouble.

Imaginary things are harder to bear than real ones.

8. Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish jealousy,

Avoid people who make you unhappy.

9. Have many interests.

If you can't travel, read about new places.

10. Don't hold postmortems.

Don't spend your time brooding over sorrows or mistakes. Don't be one who never gets over things.

11. Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself.

12. Keep busy at something.

A busy person never has time to be unhappy.

13: To know lasting happiness, get to know ALMIGHTY. 

Be happy my friends

We have all learned to live with "voice mail" as a necessary part of modern life.

But have you wondered what it would be like if God decided to install voice mail? Imagine praying and hearing this:

Thank you for calling My Father's House. Please select one of the following options:

• Press 1 for Requests
• Press 2 for Thanksgiving
• Press 3 for Complaints
• Press 4 for All Other Inquiries.

What if God used the familiar excuse...

"I'm sorry, all of our angels are busy helping other saints right now. However, your prayer is important to us and will be answered in the order it was received, so please stay on the line."

Can you imagine getting these responses as you call God in Prayer:

To find out if a loved one has been assigned to Heaven, Press 5, enter his or her social security number, then press the pound key. (If you get a negative response, try area code 666.) For reservations at "My Father's House," please enter J-O-H-N, followed by 3-1-6. For answers to nagging questions about dinosaurs, the age of the earth and where Noah's Ark is, please wait until you arrive here.

or...

Our computers show that you have already prayed once today. Please hang up and try again tomorrow so that others may have a chance to get through.

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